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Russian girls: Myths and Reality.
 
There has been so much written about Russian girls on internet since foreign brides industry began to flourish in about 1984. Through the last 10 years opinions about Russian girls varied greatly and have been changed slowly from “they are beautiful, intelligent, educated, good housewives and prefer to marry a man much older then them” to “maybe most of these foreign bride businesses are just a scam”. Over the last few years the internet has expanded dramatically. Thousands of agencies appeared on-line, claiming that they are the best, the biggest and the most scam free. Hundreds of scam sites have developed simultaneously to “unmask” and “dispose” Foreign Brides business in its unattractive and “dangerous” sides. What really did happened? Russian girls haven’t changed much over the past 10 years. Russian economy and politics have changed indeed, which affected Russian people’s views and values, but not really people themselves. There is still the same “Russian mentality”, girls are still beautiful, intelligent, educated, still very family and marriage oriented. But what about age difference and the scam stuff? How big a risk is it to get a fake fiancee instead of genuine one? What do these modern 21st century Russian girls want, expect and dream about? How do they see you, a Foreigner? After 6 years experience in dating business as Customer Relationship Manager I come together with Russian and American teams working in dating industry, to discuss these questions and try to answer them as objectively as possible. After extensive research among foreign male clients and Russian brides we found a number of myths about Russian girls and a number of facts that actually supports the reality.

Myths foreign men have about Russian girls:

Myths about scamming:

Myth “Most of Russian girls are scammers. They don’t want to marry you, only get some money out of you.”

Reality: Only a very small percentage of women from all countries are scammers. We are living in a world of billions of people, some percentage of which unfortunately are dishonest and heartless crooks. But fortunately we can love and be friends with many people we meet in our every day life, and still have a very small risk of running into scammer. Even so, there usually are easy ways to recognize a scam. The most profound way is:
“If your correspondence friend is actually ASKING you for money at any stage of correspondence (doesn’t matter what reason: broken arm, sick mother, costs for internet, birthday present) it is a 99.9% scam! Even if she really plans to marry you, she is already USING you financially.
If she is not asking for money, things, etc. – there is almost zero risk of scamming. If she don’t ask for money then she wants YOU – as simple as that.”
If you start correspondence with Russian girls, you might never find any scammer, or find one in a 1000 letters that you sent. Just report her to agency, then ignore her and keep in touch with other 999. In the dating industry we cannot protect ourselves completely from running into a scammer some day (just like we cannot protect ourselves completely from get some sickness), but we can avoid these people once we accidentally discovered them. Avoid them and keep in touch with the thousands of good and honest people and Russian girls out there.
Women are women everywhere. Whether Russian or American girls, most of them want to be loved, understood, have stability, security and protection. Also they dream to have a family and children. May be Russian girls want 2 last mentioned things more, than girls from other countries. But this is what makes them so attractive to foreign men.

Myth “Even if a Russian girl does want to marry you, she is seeking way out of country.”

Honestly? Yes, they do want to leave their country! But their intention is far from this “long term carefully planned scamming”. A girl truly want you to be a real gentleman, to love her, protect her, cherish her, just like she will love and take care of you. She want a foreign man to be and do better than Russian man ever want or can do for her. Many Russian men don’t care about their families, drink excessively, abuse their spouses, remain unemployed and expect women to take care of them.

Contra myth “If I marry a Russian girl, it will be like heaven, all my problems in a relationships like I had with “feminists American women” will be solved.”

Reality: The well known fact is that every marriage and relationship is a hard work for both sides. Yes, Russian girls have no feministic ideas, but they do value independence as well. Not all of them want to become housewives, sit at home and raise children. Many will try to get a good job and earn good money overseas, while their native country did not give them this opportunity. Russian women enjoy being taken care of, but this does not necessarily imply that they have to receive constant financial support. A foreign man’s willingness and ability to provide for family and children is good enough to feel secure. So Russian girl will still be happy to earn money from her side as well.

Myth: “These girls are too beautiful, too educated and too perfect. They cannot be real.”

Reality: You have to visit Russia or Ukraine at least once in your life, better in the summer time, to see it for yourself. Just walking on the streets in the city center, you will be astonished to see hundreds, thousands of beautiful, slim, well dressed “goddesses” walking along the streets like on fashion podium. It is a country of stunningly beautiful model-like women with very soft and “homely” charm. Concerning good University education, it has been for free in Russia for many years, yet very solid and proper education. It have always been and still is “in fashion” and very prestige to go to University after finishing high school. High education also is a very important factor in Russia to get a job, so everybody understands that you have to be intellectual and smart to be employed. Even if Russian girls did not have chance to study in a University in her country, she will be very happy to continue her education abroad. They do like to learn and to work hard.

Other myths:

Myth “If I marry a Russian doctor, she will start making lots of money and I won’t have to work anymore.”

The truth is that Russian doctors earn almost nothing in their country, although they are highly educated. Many of them are really tired of the everyday struggle for survival and simply want to have a family and take care of children. Before you run off to marry a doctor, find out what is her long term goal. Even if she does want to continue her career abroad, it might take her years to be approved as a specialist, qualified in her field.

Contra Myth “Russian girls want to be housewives, sit at home and raise children.”

Reality: 50% do and 50% don’t. It really depends on the individual girl’s dreams and desires. There can be a doctor who will relocate to America and will be happy to be a housewife, and there could be an unqualified young woman who after marrying a foreigner will study extensively overseas and start to earn a good living. There are no precise statistics on what Russian women prefer to do after they marry a foreign man. Because so many of them are highly educated, intellectual and intelligent, they want to realize themselves in particular field, depending on their profession, preferences and talents. Lots of opportunities that are unattainable in their home country, are open for them abroad, and many girls will be happy to have these opportunities to make their professional dreams come true.

Myth “Russian girls want to marry a man much older then them.”

Reality: They are not specifically looking to marry a man much older than them. On the other hand they don’t mind marrying a much older man. Age factor is not an important factor for many reasons, one of which is that foreigners do look 10 years younger than Russian men, who usually dislikes sport, drink excessively and don’t take care of themselves, compared to men from other countries. However, there are some realistic limits in age difference. It is common to get a Russian or Ukrainian wife, who is 10, 15, even 20 years younger. These marriages happened many times and proved to be successful. But if you are looking for a greater age difference than that – watch out for scam, this dream is not quite realistic.

Myth “Russian girls have to know foreign language when they get into a relationship with a foreign man. Otherwise there are years ahead of our cultural and language misunderstanding.”

Reality: Russian girls learn a new language quickly and enjoy learning. You would be surprised, communicating to a girl through interpreter in a beginning, and then already in a short period, like 2 month she is easily speaking to you in your language. Falling in love is a great stimulus in learning foreign language, thanks to all the available books for this purpose.
If you decided to be with a girl, who does not speak your language, it will take her only a month or two to start proper communication and in a year she will speak it fluently, good enough for University study.

How do I know all of this? I am Russian girl married to American man and involved in dating business for 6 years. I’ve met him, knowing not one single word in English and now I speak almost like graduated from linguistic faculty! I communicate every single day with foreign clients and Russian girls via phone, email, postal letter and actual contacts. So I do know!

When you are in doubt of where the myths about Russian girls ends and where reality starts, then seek customer support. Good customer support is a sign of well organized professional company. Tell management of the agency about your doubts, your questions and suggestions. They want to help you, it’s their not only job but they will also be pleased to see you in a successful relationship. This is the goal of Foreign Brides Industry.

Anna Lang, http://aprettywoman.com

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